Once you approve the transaction on the wallet, your request is sent to the load balancer. This load balancer is traffic controller for the rpc network. Load balancer checks the request and forwards it to the closest server. RPC server checks the transaction if it is a valid Solana transaction and then it makes sure that this request will arrive at validator without slowing down other requests' data pockets.
Validators' job is processing the requests and building blocks. The validator node looks at the transaction and makes sure that the sender sent a valid transaction, the receiver account is correct and the receiver is able to receive the sent amount. Validators can see the balances of the account. It basically verifies the transaction.
Once the transaction is approved, validators sent the transaction to the block